Who's who?

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Please introduce yourself here and share whatever details you are comfortable with.

[Mommy 2 Lukas & Noah]

 

My name is Jenn Anderson and I'm the mommy to angel baby Lukas James. Lukas was born on Thursday May 10th,2007 at just 15 weeks and 4 days gestation due to un-known reasons. He was 6 1/2 inches long and weighed 2.8 ounces (72 grams). We got to hold him and get pictures of him and us together and we got him baptized as well. Not a day goes by I don't hink of him or miss him or even wish he was here. I wish everyday he was here with us so we could be playing outside with him and planning his 1st birthday in Ocotober.   

[catbreezer]

Hi
My name is Karren (Heathers Mummy) Heather was born still at 32 weeks on Mothers day 2008.
Our PM showed no obvious cause of death just that there were some small blood clots found in my placenta which may have contributed to her lack of movement and failing heartbeat. So very much wanted and so sadly missed. x

[suzanne]

hi, my little angel caitlin was stillborn on wednesday 21st may 2003. i have a history of pre-eclampsia in pregnancy but it started very early with caitlin at 26wks. i have also had 5 c/secions so anyone who has any questions etc on either subject then feel free to pm me at anytime

[Sarah - Connors mummy]

Hi, my name is Sarah. My son Connor was born sleeping on 19th November 2007 at just 16wks gestation. I made the horrible decision to terminate my pregnancy because Connor had a spina bifida lump on the back of his neck, a piece of his skull missing & hydrocephalus. I  was told that if he had survived the pregnancy and labour then the only thing he would be able to do is breath if that.

Feel free to contact me anytime xx

[Carole]

Hi I'm Charlie's mummy, he was born at 26+5 days.  Due to my having HELLP syndrome I had to have an emergency C-section, he was absolutely perfect but a tiny 1lb 10oz, he just wanted to stay where he was safe for longer.  He lived for seven weeks and fought off an infection twice, the third time his body just had had enough, he wanted us to say goodbye which was the hardest moment in our lives.  Such a brave little fighter, he fought and fought to be with us and he made us so proud.  He was born in February 2005, the happiest day of our lives, not a day goes by that I don't think of him and wish I'd had a better body for him to grow in.  So perfect, our darling little Charlie.

[gemmalous mum]

hi my name is marie im gemma louise mum. she was still born at 20weeks died from turners syndrome. shes 3 this july 20th 08, i miss her so much. xxx

[mad scottie]

Hi i am vickie
we lost 2 babies
both were lost around 26 and 24 weeks gest
1 boy 1 girl
reason for this was i have an incompitant cervix.But no one told us they had removed my cervix due to cancerous cells.
so anyone needing help or advice i am always available to respond.

[ginger dee]

Hi am Donna i lost my son to sids (cot death) when he was ten weeks old
Born -18th sep 2006
Became an angel - 1st December 2006

Iam here to talk to anyone of you mummys xxx

[marie kyle & seanpauls mummy]

hi my name is marie and mummy to twin angels kyle and seanpaul born at 24/40 23 march 2004
sadly kyle grew wings at 2day 17hrs old
and seanpaul grew his at 3 weeks
they had twin to twin tranfusion
with love marie xxxxxx

[missmybabies]

Hi My name is karen i have no children on earth but have in heaven i have lost 10 babies over the years
all at 8wks due to no heart beat there heart beat has been seen at 6 and 7wks but onec i turn to 8wks my babies die
i have had every test done under the sun and had surgery and all come back normal
there was one time but only one out of 10 pregnancy that showed somthing in my blodd which was sticky blood thick blood that can cause blood clots in the pacenta etc so because of this i was given fragmin on my 4th pregnancy to take every day while pregnant as well as 75mg of asprin and this did no good my babies still died

They call this a missed miscarraige as i do not bleed like a miscarraige so i have to go in and have a dnc
i recently lost twin girls 3 months ago now and the same thing happend again no heart beat at 8wks but heart beat seen at 6wks and 7wks they know that my babys all died at week and day 8 going by there measurments

I buried my twin girls charlotte and sky in allerton cemetry liverpool mersyside and visit there grave everyweek
the hospital said there is nothing they can do for me as this is unexplained and because they cant find nothing wrong they cant treat me for anything , So even though they give me fragmin thats only because 1 out of 10 pregnancys showed i had sticky blood and even given the fragmin it does not work ,

I am going through icsi at the moment and will have my egg transfare in 3 weeks time if all goes great
i am given icsi as my husbands swimmers went from being great to not to great so i can get pregnant then be trying for 5 years  drives me nuts all this heartbreak ,

I am going to have another go of carrying a baby with the help of 2 fragmin injections a day and if that does not help then the hospital cant do anything elsa for me or give me anything to prevent this from happing,

So i am hoping for a miracle and praying to god that he answers my prayers
i cant keep putting myself through losing another child its heartbreaking fingers crossed i dont next time
but if thats the case i am going to try to find a surrogate mother who will have my baby for us and i will use my 2nd go of icsi
so it will be my eggs and husbands swimmers its easy said than done and finding a surrogate mother isnt that easy
I just hope my luck changes and we have our baby girl or boy


Karen x

[Coists Mummy]

Im Lynsey, Proud mummy to my little man Coist, Born sleeping Sept 03 due to IUGR

[vicky]

hi there i'm vicky bethany caywood's mummy my baby was born stillborn at 31wks gestation she will be 7 in october i miss her terribly 

love vicky
xxxx

[davids- mummy]

im pauline i am 36 from dublin , i lost my only son david at 29+3  he was born sleeping , he was delivered @29+6 reason for him dying was there was a kink in the chord and only 75% of placenta was working i am so heartbroken he not with me

[Paula_xox_]

Hi I'm Paula

My angels are:

Alex born sleeping on the 9th December 2006 at 20 wks 5 days the routine 20 wk scan showed no heartbeat so i was taken into hospital and induced. Alex's PM report showed that he was only the size of a 16 wk foetus althought we had heard h/beat at 18 wks and i'd felt movement until 19 wks. It also showed no genetic defects just a lack of amnio fluid and an over twisted umbilical cord with a lack of Whartons jelly.

Harry born sleeping on the 6th September 2007 we went for the routine 20 wk scan on the Friday afternoon were we found Harry had a large bladder and a lack of amnio fliud so i was booked for a re scan 4 days later. On the Monday i saw midwife and we heard h/beat and i felt movement that evening but sadly when i was scanned there was no h/beat. Harry's PM report showed he was the corrrect size for his gestational age,had no genetic defects but as with Alex an overtwisted cord with lack of Whartons Jelly - the consult said it was like looking at the same baby's PM report.

I also have :

a 6 wk angel - June 2005

a 6 wk angel - September 2005

a 9 wk mmc Sprout grew to 8+1 in Feb 2008

an ectopic measuring 7 wks 30th May 2008 - had keyhole surgery but too awkward so had to opened up and right tube removed.

Feel free to PM or email me if i can be of any help at all to anybody.

Love Paula xox