getting concerned

[angiebaby19812004]

As some of you know I have a six month old daughter in foster care. I have not seen her since last Tuesday as on Thursday it was cancelled. My parents were meant to see her on Friday but social services never confirmed times so my parents never went for me to be told that some1 was there and waited for 2 hours. Then today we were meant to see my daughter and again no show. The person who supervises the contact showed up without daughter to say foster carer cant be contacted. She wasnt in and doesnt have a mobile number. Im now getting very concerned as Im scared in case something bad has happened to my baby girl. Its bad enough that I already have lost a daughter to death and a miscarriage. Social services should bear in mind my history and also my sons feelings but they dont. He is now confused and god knows what the poor lad is thinking as we havent seen his sister for almost a week. Im so scared something has happened and they are not telling me.

[mel - jakesangelmummy]

 
 

I know this must be so difficult for you, but im certain that had anything happened to your little girl you would have been contacted immediately,

Keep trying with social services  you will see your daughter soon

 

[olivias mummy]

Im so sorry this is happening to you.

I dont really know what to say as i have never dealt with social services but it seems to me that they are not been fair to you.

I know they will say you are not their concern but they should care about your son and the fact it is affecting him, not to mention the effect it must be having on your daughter to not see her mummy. They are supposed to look after your children and i feel they are not doing so by not ensuring regular contact.

love cheryl xx 

[ginger dee]

Iam sorry to hear how they are treating you my friend has the same with social services she lost her son to sids and they took all her others of her as thay say she failed him they often cancel visits with her. in my eyes they pick on the wrong people i hope you get to see her soon

[davids- mummy]

omg i am so sorry this is happening , hats really pissed me off about this is social services shud have contact numbers for people who foster care , as far as i am concerned they aint doin their job properly they have had so much bad press recently and you would think they get it right  sorry for the rant but they treating you so unfairly

[angiebaby19812004]

I know they are not doing their job properly, thats why my dp and I are going to make an official complaint and also if they ignore that then take them to court. They have not replied to any lawyers letters and not 1ce have they mentioned that Rebecca may have died because of Epilepsy. Just found this out last week that it was in a report she may have died of fits but no they gone for another possiblity which is some1 tried 2 smother her. They have not considered 1ce that she was ill and on her death certificate it is unascertained which is why I thought they put it down to sids. (Apparently they put it down as unascertained now and not sids) They dont understand that my son needs to see his sister (Roisin) every time we tell him hes gonna see her or he is going to think the worst as he did when she was first taken away. I dont even know how she is or if she is ok.

[olivias mummy]

I wish you luck in sorting things out between yourself and social services and i hope you make them see that they have to do what is best for you all.

love cheryl xx 

[Angel Rosemary's mum ~ tigertess]

omg what a nightmare your going through  I really do hope you manage to sort something out and fast it seems unreal in this day and age they can get away with behaving like this
thinking of you 

[angiebaby19812004]

Just to let u all know we went to social work office this morning and spoke to our social worker, my partner asked how do we make a complaint and she seemed shocked that we want 2 complain. Any way she gave us a form which just tells us how 2 complain!!!!! If she thinks just putting an extra hour on the end of the next 2 contacts is gonna help......Its not!! Then we went into the shop where I volunteer and the foster carer came in with my daughter just  to see if we were in. Anyway the whole point to this post is that I seen my daughter 2day :-D even tho it was just for 5 or 10 mins :-( and she was happy 2 see us. Still gonna complain about social services tho since they are not replying to letters and the fact that they messed up and bought back lots of memories of Rebecca (had flashbacks of wen i found her) wen she died.

[olivias mummy]

Im so glad you have managed to see your daughter if only for a criminally small amount of time.

love cheryl xx