Child care

[ginger dee]

As you know ive gone back to work me and dp Kev said my mum wud look after my girls when we were both at work but hes now decied he wants his mum to have them the problem is his mum was horrible to me and told every one i was necelting Jayden and then when we lost him she made nasty hurtfull comments at hospital and his funeral his family were never there for us they didnt help with the cost or arrangments. When i went to say my last goodbye at hospital we went with his parents were she walked of with kev and left me on my own walking up street in pieces.we then returned home after and all she keep telling me in my own home was now i didnt have the kids i had time to tidy house i hate her thats putting it nice. When iam at work and he aint he takes kids to see him mum which i can cope with as hes there with them now kev is saying my mum has the kids all the time and he wants his mum to have them when he and i are at work which i dont want his mum to have them.my mum only has them for a hr then kev insists on picking them up but he wants his mother to have them the whole shift on her own i dont want her to i see  it
that iam been fair in that she sees them at all after all she said has anyone every had issues like this is when i say no to him he kicks of anyone any adive as to what i can do as at moment i feel like i need to give up work even though i dont want to.

[claire-enzo'smommy]

Babe u need to explain all this to kev tell him everything unless you can make him see it from your point of view i dont see any other choice than u giving up work (she sounds like a right nasty piece of work too ) You didnt neglect Jayden and who cares if your house is a mess (Its none of her bloody business ) i dont know hun  for you sweetie

[olivias mummy]

wow hun i really dont know what advice to give you.

I think his mum is lucky you let her see them at all and i wouldnt let her look after them either but how you get your hubby to see that i have no idea.

could you not find a comprimise where she only has them for an hour and your mum looks after them when your at work?

sorry i cant be more help.

love cheryl xx