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[ginger dee]

When Jayden passed away we told my girls that he had gone to heaven they didnt come to the funeral. Well today Olivia whos only 5 has got very confussed as the pet rabbit died and she found him so i told her it had gone to heaven to be with jayden she then said it hasnt as the rabbits laid there and you cud not see Jayden When he died so ive told her the angels come but you cant she the angels when they come and shes asked me if the angels will bring jayden and her rabbit bk anyone any clues to how i can best deal with this as i dont what her to confussed over everything xxxxx

[Pamela]

Hi Donna

I posted a couple of days ago about something similar. after getting advice and reading a book but I cant remember the name we just explained to Jessica that once we die we no longer need our body it is the spirt that lives on. We explained all the great things about Jamies spirit and now that he has wings he wont need his body because it is too heavy. We then said that Jamie's body that he no longer needs goes in a special box which she later found out I had one similar at home. SHe thought we had shrunk Jamie's body but I explained that because I didnt want to bury his body I had it made into angel dust so i could keep it at home. SHe accepted this and thought it was lovely having his body as angel dust. She never asked how it turns into angel dust and if she does I am ready for that! As long as yuo are honest but in an way they understand they will just take in what they understand.

I would say that they cant come back but their spirit is always near.

I hope this helps a bit

Love me Pamela xx

[mel - jakesangelmummy]

 

I really dont know how I would deal with that one  

Maybe tell her that Jayden comes back all the time but because he is a   now she cant see him, but he is always there looking after her

I wish I could help more, it really is a tough one, In an ideal world your daughter would have no experience of death at this young age

 

[olivias mummy]

I think pamela seems to have a great idea about this.

I dont know that i can add anything more to it.

Hope it goes well and your children accept what you say.

love cheryl xx 

[karaokej88]

yeah i think the best ideas have been said already.

take it slowly and be ready to repeat it over if she doesnt understand or doesnt grasp it at first,.

good luck, let us know how you get on,

love jane.xxxx

[Olliemam+1]

Hi

I really agree with what has been suggested, please let us know how you get on, sending loads and loads of 

Take care


Dawn xxxxx.