Hi I'm Wayne and I'm from Northern Ireland.
My story begins on 14th June 2006 when my first born son came into this world weighing 8lb 1/2oz. We were never as happy. We spent the following weeks travelling everywhere to show off our son Lee, we were so proud. A very short 14 weeks 5 days later we were left stunned. Our 'wee man' had been called home on 25th September 2006. No explanation was given, his 3 older sisters as well as myself and his mummy were left numb. It felt like part of me was missing. The day of the funeral the coroners report arrived, cause of death UNKNOWN.
It wasn't until 3 days before Christmas that the coroner again contacted us stating that our 'wee man' Lee had died of S.I.D.S. and the coroner explained how sorry they were that they couldn't come up with any answers and that he was healthy in every way.
As we now approach his 1st anniversary things don't get any easier, his 3 older sisters talk about him and miss their wee brother. As parents we try to remain sain for the kids sake, trying to hide our hurt and pain. We now have a little daughter born on 23rd July 2007 and although it is extremely hard to carry on, we must. She has given us hope and belief as well as the strength to carry us through the long hard days and years without our son.
In remembrance of our son Lee we have made and are selling S.I.D.S. awareness ribbons, with the money raised going to F.S.I.D. If anyone would like some then please email me at
sids-awareness@talktalk.net all we ask is for a minimum donation of £1 and a little extra to cover postage to enable us to give as much money to charity as possible.
I hope to speak to some other parents soon through these forums.
Thank you for listening (or should I say reading) my rant.
Wayne