I blame myself, he blames himself

[Baileysmummy]

So much blame going around our house its just not fair
I blame myself, the night e died, I could have got to him quicker but nope I walked to the shop, how flipping stupid can I be

Mark thinks its his doing as a few weeks before he died he was re plastering the ceiling, he says the dust has killed him

I just need to know who is to blame so we can help each other, Need his inquest to hurry up, Its taking the mick it really is!

[davids- mummy]

no one is to blame fiona bailey wouldnt want you to blame each other , its sad to say this happens for no apparent reason 

[mum2evan+dyfan]

Fiona,
noone is to blame, i unerstand that it would be easier to understand if there was areason for your loss and someone to blame.  its cruel to say that these things  just happen. we can put a man on the moon yet we can't understand why some of our babies grow their wings.
 

Kathxxx

[angelmum]

Fiona know one is to blame sweetie

Me and John used to blame our selves for Lewis's death and Kelvin's death, it tuck alot of years to finally let them feelings go 



I blame myself for Ashley's death sometimes just because i don't have an answear's and never will 




please try not to blame yourself hun, and i really hope you get the answer's you need soon 




Donna 

[Olliemam+1]

Fiona

What can I say that has not already been said.  Please please no one is to "blame" for your beautiful Bailey's passing.  I know it would make it a bit esaier if you could blame someone or something.  I hope that when the inquest does open you might eventually find out some reason as to why.

Sending you all my love

Dawn xxxxx. 

[nicmc]

No-one is to blame. Dont do this to yourself by blaming yourself. It would be easier to accept if it was somebody's fault but it not your or your other half. Its life and god it is so cruel!!! to you

[mel - jakesangelmummy]

I think Its only natural to search for somewhere to lay the blame. If we cant find anywhere we normally end up blaming ourselves. I know I do.

But I really doubt this could have been something you or your DP did.

I have a medical reason as to what killed jake. But no answers to the why Jake, why me questions and still so many what ifs

I do hope you get some answers that will go some way to putting your mind at rest