How quick people forget....lc mentioned

[Ali - Daisy's mummy]

Lately Daisy's loss seems so raw.  I don't know if it is because Seth is here and now guilt has kicked in.  Sometimes my heart just breaks looking at him, he looks so much like his big sister. 

What hurts is that people seem to think one baby replaces another.  The other day Paul's mum said she was thrilled that she had 2 grandchildren, a boy and a girl...the girl being Millie, Paul's niece.  I could have screamed at her...she has three, THREE......stupid, thoughtless woman.  I wish I did react, I felt like I had let Daisy down by just sitting there motionless.  I miss he so much, I wish I could give her all the same things I can Seth and I hate that so many people think I should just move on and be thankful.  Off course I'm thankful, but it doesn't fill that big hole of heartbreak, it doesn't mean I don't wake up everyday and wish she were HERE with me too.

It hurts that people just expect you to move on....it hurts even more that they move on by ingnoring the fact Daisy existed, and still exists as a little angel.

much love Ali
xxxx
 

[Bretts mummy Emma]

Awww hunni sorry that you are having such a bad time at the min, I have felt exactly what you feel right now and so have all of the ladies here on ofb. Sending you 


Emma 

[mel - jakesangelmummy]

 

I dont think people will ever understand hun.

I believe that in there minds because we didnt get to spend a life time with our little ones like we deserve, that are babies are ONLY babies rather than the little individuals we know and love. Therefore they think another baby will just make everything okay.

We are all so thankful for our LC but they can never fill the void left behind by our  's

 

[***clairelouise-finlays mummy ***]

  big hugs to you babe , im thinking of you xx

[davids- mummy]

ali i think once you have had a baby after a loss they expect you to forget your little angel , and thats one thing we will never do sending you 

[Olliemam+1]

Ali

How true, people so just expect you to move on and be thankful for what you have got, or atleast that is what I have found.   It is just so sad that the only person who normally remembers your Angel is you.

Sending you loads and loads of  and a few 

Take care


Dawn xxxxx. 

[MamaOf3Angelz]

  Im so sorry, it is so hard when we are faced with this sort of situation, I get it all the time and it frustrates me to no end, I wish it didn't have to be this way for any of us but unfortunately people will be so cruel and "push" it aside in our lives and it is heartbreaking. My  goes out to you sweets, it really does, and I am so sorry,

((((Hugs))))

Naomilee

[Alison - Lucys Mammy]

 

sending you lots and lots of ((((hugs)))) I dont think anyone can understand unless they have been through what we have all been through ( even the ones that try )......

Take Care
Ali
x

[marie~elises mummy]

thinking of you hun 

[nicmc]

I know exactly how you feel. Thinking of you 

[mammyspippy]

im sending u lotts of huggs hun . i wish sometimes people would think about what they are saying . it hurts so much . you will always love your little angel and thats all that counts hun