kimbobt84-BensMummy
OFB Support Team
Hero Member
 Offline
Posts: 5491
My Little Man Ben 10/05/07-04/06/07
|
 |
« on: February 07, 2009, 08:53:07 PM » |
|
today as we left the cemetry holly said 'bye ben' clear as day! It's the first time shes said her twin brother bens name. It was so emotional. Hol talks but 'select' words like sister 'ashleigh' but not sister lucy. Holly babbles nonsence more than the others ever did, out of the car window etc. I hope she sees and talks to ben x
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
You are not allowed to view links. Register or Login You are not allowed to view links. Register or Login Our gorgeous, brave little man Ben, mummy, daddy, Ashleigh, Lucy and Holly love & miss you so, so much |
|
|
Olliemam+1
My Precious Angel
OFB Support Team
Hero Member
Offline
Posts: 9277
xxxxx.
|
|
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2009, 09:07:19 PM » |
|
Kim I bet it was emotional, I had a lump in my throat reading about your clever lady. I am sure that she talks to Ben. Take care Dawn xxxxx.  |
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Bretts mummy Emma
|
|
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2009, 12:24:08 AM » |
|
Aww how sweet yet emotional Kim xxxxxxxx
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
Alison - Lucys Mammy
|
|
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2009, 09:17:17 AM » |
|
 aww bless ... must have been so emotional  for such a clever girl .... Ali x
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
GillyF
Moderator
Hero Member
Offline
Posts: 291
My lark. My angel. My boy.
|
|
« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2009, 11:58:38 AM » |
|
Gosh, it must have been a very moving moment. Hard to keep back the tears, I'm sure.
Best wishes,
Gilly
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Jen
|
|
« Reply #8 on: February 08, 2009, 09:16:01 PM » |
|
What a very emotional moment. and  to Ben Jen |
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
marie Ethan's mum
|
|
« Reply #10 on: February 09, 2009, 03:07:36 PM » |
|
 the moment we both longed for and dreaded all at the same time, how did you cope.? Ben will always be with Holly even when he can't be with you Kim . they will always have that bond that is stronger then even a mother's bond , I really want erin to finally be able to say ethan's but may have to reach for the tissues after she finally does .
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
kimbobt84-BensMummy
OFB Support Team
Hero Member
Offline
Posts: 5491
My Little Man Ben 10/05/07-04/06/07
|
|
« Reply #11 on: March 02, 2009, 04:10:12 PM » |
|
sorry marie i've only just seen your reply. How did i cope? Did the whole 'pull yourself together' visulising slapping my face/dont cry infront of the girls etc lol. It was emotional, lovely, sad, heartbreaking, joyous. I want hol to know all about ben so i guess this was step 1 of ben becoming ben to hol, if that makes sense, other than me talking about him. Marie, erin will say ethan with erin timing hehe i.e. somewhere where you really don't want to cry hehe. It will be so special, and make me bloody cry too!
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
marie Ethan's mum
|
|
« Reply #12 on: March 02, 2009, 08:31:43 PM » |
|
don't apologise , hope the move went well ,
you are so brave Kim , I so wish Holly had her Ben every single day , sometimes more then I wish you had him if you know what I mean , Erin has started playing with the other littleones her age at mums and toddlers which is lovely but i send the whole time wishing it was ethan she had to play with .
|
|
|
|
|
Logged
|
|
|
|
|
©Our Forever Babies