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 Happy 2nd Birthday Guy I hope you have a lovely party beyond the clouds with all of your angel friends  Gilly and family, thinking of you all on what should be a very different day for you  |
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« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2009, 09:20:52 PM » |
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Happy 2nd Birthday Guy , enjoy your special day beyond the clouds xxxxx. Gilly, thinking of you and all of your family, god bless. Take care Dawn xxxxx. |
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« Reply #4 on: February 15, 2009, 10:06:52 PM » |
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Guy have a lovely day sweetie pie Gilly and family you are in my thoughts today hunni xxxxxxxx
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« Reply #5 on: February 16, 2009, 03:24:08 AM » |
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« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2009, 08:55:58 AM » |
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Happy Second Birthday Guy and Alastair, at home and in Heaven. You are not allowed to view images. Please register or loginJ, I know today will be a day of very mixed emotions. Celebrating Alastair's birthday today must also serve to highlight the unfillable void Guy has left in your family. I wish both your precious boys were there with you today to enjoy their birthdays.  Take care Jen |
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« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2009, 09:13:42 PM » |
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Ladies,
I logged on earlier to email a friend of mine, and afterwards checked this board, as I do daily. And I was completely overwhelmed by the sight of Guy's name on OFB, and your messages.
They meant so very, very much to me. Thank you.
Because it has been a very difficult day.
At 9:00 this morning, after very little sleep, I was at a job interview. (My career imploded some years ago after, in a fit of madness I left London, and everywhere I looked for work they told me I would just go off and have babies. If only it had been that easy..)
Anyway, I have worked my butt off this past week getting prepared. I had to do a presentation, interview and take something called an in-tray test (had never heard of it before). My presentation went well, was quite happy with my interview performance. But I messed up the test. My rustiness showed. All that work and I b****d it up in 15 minutes.
When I got home, I was upset but I had my sons to think about. Both my sons. We opened Alastair's pressies and cards. I made up Guy's flower arrangement and we all went to his graveside and sobbed as it came to 4:30, the time Guy was born.
What could put something in perspective more than being at your child's grave?
I had to show them all my qualifications this morning. All my As. My degree. And I know what it's like to jet around the world to meetings. To hail a cab in the City at night. To fly to New York. But nothing I have ever done came close to meeting my sons for the first time. Especially Guy. He had so much spirit. He was so bright. And he stole my heart.
I am privileged to have Alastair to love and cherish. But I was the mother to two beautiful boys this time 2 years ago and I can't, won't, ever forget that. So it means a great deal to me when other people make the effort to remember Guy. Like my SIL. I had not expected her to send flowers to Guy's grave like she did last year. But she did. And you ladies on OFB.
Thank you for putting his name up. Thank you for your messages of support. They are deeply appreciated.
And tomorrow I will wake up and it will be my birthday. The birthday that dare not speak its name.
I am going to make an enormous cake; Alastair and I are going to blow out lots of candles; and we will have two special candles for the other member of our trio.
Gilly
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« Reply #8 on: February 24, 2009, 02:32:41 AM » |
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Happy 2nd birthday Guy Know you and your brother Alastair will have a wonderful day by the sound of what mummy has planned Gilly thinking of you and your family and hoping this emotional day goes gently on you
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Grainne - Tyler & Margarets Mummy
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« Reply #9 on: February 24, 2009, 10:15:02 AM » |
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Gilly thinking of you and your family today
I am here for you hun if you need to talk
Guy stay close to your family at this tiome as they need you so much
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« Reply #10 on: February 25, 2009, 11:05:39 AM » |
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happy belated birthday guy and alastair. Lots of hugs on a day of mixed emotions x x x
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