I am i been a bad mummy

[ginger dee]

I am struggling to know if iam wrong in anyway even before i lost Jayden i never relly let my kids stay anywere over night as my view is once you have kids you look after them yourself as been a teen mum when i had my first i didnt want to be judged as a bad mum so carried on working and carring for my daughter. I do not like my kids been looked after by anyone else unless iam working other wise i have them with me hence way i never go out or get babysitters unless working. Some people seem to think iam wrong to do this and its not normal and i need to let go a bit but is they some thing wrong me been like this. I had never given how a look after my kids a second thought and it was someone saying to me that i aint right as i had crossed words with them when they were moaning about having there kids and i said be gratfull for what you have.Dot get me wrong they go to there friends to play its just i dont let them stay over night any were or anyone take them unless iam at work. Is anyone the same?

[ConniesMammy.]

Hi dee im exactly the same as you and i personally dont see any wrong in it.In fact i think the opposite my kids play with other kids they have a healthy lifestyle and have thier mam and dad with them at all times i think thats a healthy thing not a bad one

[Laura~Tyler&Taylor'sMommy]

Your certainly not a bad mother Donna 

Some people don't like to think of their children being without their parent(s) but that's not a bad thing 

[Bretts mummy Emma]

Donna I am the exact same sweetie, the only ppl who look after my boys are me, my DP and their father when he has them xxxx

[***clairelouise-finlays mummy ***]

 

[Pamela]

Not at all everyone is very different and your views may change over time and if they did no one can judge you for that either. I have left mine but then on the times that i am not doing anything Jessica has my full attention. do what you want ignore everyone else xx

[mel - jakesangelmummy]

I am exactly the same.

I will only leave my ickle ones with my mum (wont even leave them with DP) And only f I have a good reason to have them looked after. Other than that they are with me all the time. I do worry that it may not be the best thing for them sometimes