why do i feel guilt all the time

[lisaa]

am sure every one thats lost a child  alwaz feels guilt and anger and hurt , but does it get any easier at any stage, it,l b a month next thursday since my partner and i lost r baby and for me it dosent seem to b getting any easier , im still at stage were im either crying r tired r feel anger and guilt , i know nurses always say its not ur fault its natures way of dealing with things but y does that not make it any easier , at min i keep thinking its my bodies way of saying ur to old (37) to be wanting another child or that wen i had mirena coil in its messed my body up so much that i cant carry a child i get that guilty sometimes i blame myself for not being able to protect my baby from loosing it , sorri for ranting on xx

[mum2evan+dyfan]

i too blame myself, as it's my body that wasn't able to keep my boys`safe for long enough.
its been longer for me than you and i'm sorry i wish i could say it gets easier but i haven't found that it has.  i still feel a huge amount of guilt and cry a lot.
here for you.

Kathxxx

[Bretts mummy Emma]

sending you loads of hugs hunni guilt is one of the many different emtions that we experience hunni

[lisaa]

just wanted to say many thanx to the wonderful women on this site and for all the kind words and support they have shown me since i found this site xx today wasnt a good day and i suppose like many of use we all have them sum maybe more than others, but use r definitely a blessing to women who r going thru so much with there emotions to be ther with words to help , today my 9 yr old bless him fell and hit his mouth and broke his front tooth hd to take him to hospital for a check make sure he hadnt dun any other damage they quickly patched him up n nw god love him hes to go to dentist tomorrow and hes like his mum in that department big fear of dentists ,, was only until today that i realised when i was in hospital how much he was going thru missing the baby wen he said how much he hated the hospital coz they'd tuk r baby and that he hated wen it rained coz he didnt get to say goodnite to his angel in the sky , so we had a long chat and told him that just coz he cudnt see his star that i wasnt around it was just play hide and seek but it was always gna b ther to keep him safe and protect him, so wev came to an agreement instead of doing anything for mums birthday next week wer gna go to b&q and buy nice plant for him to put in garden and he can watch grow withhim  xx many thanx for listening xxx

[chelle.ellis]

Lisa i think the plant is a really nice idea. I have a special windowsill with plants and ornaments on to remember my baby. I too feel gulity because if my body hadn't been damaged (I had an ectopic pregnancy) my baby wouldnt have got stuck in my fallopean tube and would be here now. Sending huge hugs to you and your family,

  Michelle xx

[Susan - Tobias & Tanesha's Mummy]

The plant is a lovely idea hunni, lots of