Hello and welcome Louise

[Jen]

Glad you have joined us on here. I know you will find all the ladies on here a great source of support and understanding in the days ahead. I know life feels a little surreal and overwhelming right now. But as I have already said to you please keep talking and let all that emotion and frustration out.

To go to the lengths you had to go to to get your girls in the first place makes their leaving this world so unfair. I often think that about my pregnancies. Why did god allow me to go through all those procedures, medications, treatments etc if I was not going to be allowed to keep my girls? I wish I had the answers but the only answer I have ever found is that life is just bloody unfair.

There is normally always someone about to listen and we want to hear all about Isabel and Poppy whenever you want to talk about them.

I will catch you later as I have to run now. I'll be back about 9ish and if you are not about I am sure we will catch up over the weekend.

[louise2930]

Thank you Jen and everybody else for your kindness,  I have posted my story on I'm new, my story
I am finding the support is helping me and it feels good to talk about my angels
I hope to speak to you soon hun

Louise xx

[Bretts mummy Emma]

  Louise I read your story in 'Hi I'm new' and it made me cry I am so sorry that life is so unfair xxxxx we are here for you xxxxx

[louise2930]

Thanks Emma,  its so raw and feels like a nightmare to which I will wake up and look down at my huge bump and feel them kicking me,  that's the only way I can get through this,  by pretending it's not real

How did you manage to deal with it?

xx

[Dani]

Louise Keep Talking about your precious girls, don't try to hold it in and cry when you need to cry and laugh if thats how you feel.
There are no rights and wrongs you just do what feels right for you.
sending your girls kisses on the wind
Danielle

[***clairelouise-finlays mummy ***]

  hugs to you louise xxxxxxx

[Bretts mummy Emma]

Louise my story is slightly different to yours in that I lost my little boy at the age of 10 weeks to Sudden Unexpected Death in Infancy, but the stages of grief are always the same hunni, it's the order they come in that's also different. You are quite clearly in the denial stage ad that is your mind and body's way of protecting you from the over whelming grief. Please keep coming online as much or as little as you need to we are here and we will answer any questions you have, or simply be a supportive ear there is a chat room where we can get to know one another a little better if you prefer that way hunni xxxxx PM me if you wish too xxxxx

[GillyF]

Louise,

I'm so very sorry you had to be here and that you lost both your precious babies. Most people who post about twins here have lost one, but they have been where you have been - terrified that the very worst could happen - so they can empathise with you and feel deep sympathy.

You'll find life very hard in the months, and years to come, but you will find people here ready to listen and help.

Take care,

J

[kimbobt84-BensMummy]

I just wanted to say hello and welcome you to ourforeverbabies Louise.
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your two daughters Isabel and Poppy, such beautiful names for I'm sure two beautiful little girls.
You must be in absolute shock right now hun, so anything we can do to help you through this nightmare know that we will. Sadly we are all here for the same reason, and although their is no 'rules/order' of grief, many of us can sadly relate to how you are feeling-so know we are here to talk about your precious girls and your devastating grief anytime x