Hi ladies,
Well I finally managed to open up to my DH about trying for another baby and he said we can try sometime in 2011

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One thing that he did say needed doing was a full gynae as Ive been having loads of trouble-not gonna go into detail but I had a smear test and it came back all clear so shouldnt be nothing seriously wrong which I'm relieved about. In January I have to go for a scan on my reproductive system and then in Feb I have to go for a colposcopy and if they go ok and nothing serious is discovered then we are going to have a sit down again and discuss trying again! We are going to be sensible though and look at finances and whether we are both mentally ready as the stitch I will have to have in every pregnancy from now on could fail at any point, though my consultant has assured me it had more chance of failing with Brody as I was already beginning to go into labour and it will have a higher success rate if put in earlier like 12-14 weeks of pregnancy when my cervix is not starting to dilate :)
I'm sooo excited and I really hope I can join here in a few months time announcing I am pregnant. Will keep you posted about how my scan and colposcopy go!hopefully join you all soon. keep fingers crossed for me please
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