Once you lose a child it really does make you put things into perspective. It makes you realise how lucky you are to have the things you do-especially healthy children, and especially when you see others that sadly have no children with them, but it by no means takes away any of the sadness or pain-you have still lost three children.
I think it's important that you do, like you say, just take moments to think, yes hang on and grieve for your losses x
