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elenors mummy
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« on: March 27, 2008, 09:58:53 PM »

I am an emotional wreck it is official!!!!  Lola is now 6 weeks old and i am shattered and drained the kids are off scholl for 2 weeks and i am arrrrggghhhhhh

I have been to see the doctor this morning and she said that it is normal to be feeling like this as i have a newborn baby !!!!  i feel like an alien.....  Lola sleeps 9 hours every night but i dont sleep as i am constantly checking to see if she is still breathing!!!!!!

Doc says i need to rest and just take a chill pill  does she have a 11 a 9 and a 6 week old?????  and i have ocd i think as i cant stop cleaning which she told me to do wtf?????? i dont think so it drives me crazy if my house is untidy!!!!

Rant over.... sorry girls

Lyn ette xxxx
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« Reply #1 on: March 27, 2008, 10:04:45 PM »

awwww hun I havn't been yet so can't say I know how you feel but sure I will be posting the same thing soon


Just wanted to send you  Theres no point in me saying try to relax and rest because I know that must be impossible but I do hope you feel alot better soon.

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« Reply #2 on: March 27, 2008, 10:12:00 PM »

Lynette

Just wanna send you      i'm sure things will start to settle soon

Love Paula xox
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« Reply #3 on: March 27, 2008, 10:17:52 PM »

Lynette, It's only natural to be anxious, emotional - all those things you described.  It's hard work trying to juggle everything - tell your Wes to get his finger out of his arse and stop sitting on his elbow and give you a hand!!  (sorry - couldn't resit that one - my da say's it everytime I get stressed and it makes me laugh, I hope it made you laugh a little....)

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« Reply #4 on: March 27, 2008, 11:12:47 PM »

Aw Lynette,

it's only natural that you're feeling this way. I was constantly checking little man when he was little and still do now and panic if he sleeps the whole night and have to go running in to check he's ok!

I know it's hard to not tidy up all the time as I want to do it as well ad for some reason wanted to do it more right after having little man!! Try to leave it as it's not important really! Remember you are recovering from the birth as well and you need to rest.

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« Reply #5 on: March 28, 2008, 10:27:22 AM »

 

I hope you are feeling a little better today.

I'll join you in the OCD club, I tend to put my cleaning before everything,

Im glad ickle lola is sleeping so well for you but im sure it must be a worry, Josh was up every 3 hours exactly up until he was 16 weeks and it was strangely reassuring (though pretty exhausting)

Try your best to relax and enjoy your little lady, she is already growing so fast

 kis
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« Reply #6 on: March 28, 2008, 11:07:19 AM »

I hope your feeling a bit better today Lynette 

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« Reply #7 on: March 28, 2008, 11:09:21 AM »

orrrrrrr bless you hun! dont really no what to say! i send you big hugs! 
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« Reply #8 on: March 28, 2008, 12:22:30 PM »

awwww 

Im not suprised your so anxious as i know i would be.

experience has made you that way.

love cheryl xx  kis
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« Reply #9 on: March 28, 2008, 11:10:30 PM »

No ..... not feeling much better today i just clean to make myself feel better ??? do you know what i mean???  wes is going mad with me but i need it to be clean and tidy .... there is nothing wrong with that is there??? 

If weather is ok i think i will go for a long walk just to get out of the house and get some fresh air....

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« Reply #10 on: March 28, 2008, 11:19:24 PM »

There's nothing wrong with wanting things to be clean and tidy but give yourself a break and rest for a little while. If you're exhausted it's not gonna help how you're feeling.

Try and get out for that walk.

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« Reply #11 on: March 29, 2008, 09:13:06 AM »

As long as your not pushing yourself too hard then there is nothing wrong with wanting a clean and tidy house,

Enjoy your walk sweetie, I hope it helps

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« Reply #12 on: March 29, 2008, 09:24:45 AM »



hope your feeling a bit better today Lynette xx

 

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« Reply #13 on: March 29, 2008, 08:19:07 PM »

feel a lil better.... me and lola went into town today ... we walked well i did she got pushed!!!!!  it took about 45 mins to walk there .... i did my shopping as i needed more formula and nappies and just bits really..... then it started rining really bad so wes came to pick us up.
I am missing elle as she has gone to London for the weekend with my mum and dad... but she is having a great time .

So me dom wes and Lola are just chilling tonight.

Like i say i feel a lil better .... i will get there xxx
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« Reply #14 on: March 29, 2008, 09:15:54 PM »

glad you are feeling a little better and i bet both you and Lola really enjoyed your walk to town and to do a bit of girly shopping.

glad Wes came to fetch you in the nasty rain though.

Bet Elle is having a really great time in London as its amazing.

love cheryl xx  kis
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