A cake and so on

[Clovers Mummy]

As you may remember we lost one of identical twins ...

It is our surviving childs baptism.  We have asked for Clover to be included in the ceremony as much as possible.

I have quite a few decorations with Clover on :)

I have made a cake for him with a wreath like design on the top and a baba and of course clover ....  I have ordered balloons and other bits to represent him on the day. 

Will be incorporating cover into the flowers too :)

Quite good as hubby has just left me to it to do what I feel I need to :) bless  ANd supported me doign the cakes etc by taking committments off me to have the time :)

[angel jamies mummy]

Hi,I THINK IT'S A GREAT IDEA AS IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BOTH OF THEIR SPECIAL DAY.I LOST ONE OF MY IDENTICAL TWINS AS WELL AND WHEN WE GOT STEPHEN CHRISTENED THE MINISTER MENTIONED JAMIE AND SAID A LITTLE PRAY FOR HIM WHICH WAS SAD BUT SO SPECIAL AS WE DID'NT KNOW HE WAS GOING TO DO IT AND IT MADE JAMIE PART OF THE SPECIAL DAY.AFTER THE SERVICE WE TOOK BALLOONS AND FLOWERS TO JAMIE'S GRAVE AND THEN WENT FOR A BIG FAMILY MEAL AND WE DONE A TOAST FOR BOTH OUR BOYS.I HOPE YOUR SPECIAL DAY GOES EXCACTLY HOW YOU WANT IT TO.LOVE LISA XXXX
 
  TO YOUR LITTLE ANGEL

[Laura~Tyler&Taylor'sMommy]

What a lovely idea to include Clover hun, I hope the day goes well for you 

Laura x 

[Clovers Mummy]

Well not competley to plan.

Went to where having the buffet and set out the cakes and balloons etc   Had baptism decorations and also clovers :)  (will get some photoes uploaded)  Both cakes amired :)

Started the baptism and J introduced - the priest I had spoken to came over to include Clover and the priest taking it said - you dont want that mentioned do you - YES!!

So expalined that J had a twin Cover who died at 28 weeks ....

So no prayers or anything for him :(  But we lit a candle for him and embie before it began :)

At the buffet we cut Clovers cake with little teddy Clover  :)

[angel jamies mummy]

I'm shocked at the preist I thought he would have been more understanding.I'm glad the rest of your day went well.love lisa xxx